It has been awhile since I’ve written a blog. All the same, Ive had my spurts of intense moments satisfying my craving for some excitement. These past couple of months have been very “Catch Me If You Can!” Those sexy, elusive “the wait was sure worth it” moments that describe the essence of Black Seductress has not changed one bit.

Over these past couple of weeks, Ive rediscovered and uncovered something that has captured my interest and pumped new life into me… Ideas are flowing through my head at a mile a minute, and you can be sure it wont be long before I share them with you. Im very excited over the prospect of my latest idea, and I think that each and every one of you will be just as excited as I am!

Ill give you something to look forward to right now, and that is I will now actually be going live and available on YIM instead of always being invisible. So, if you are on my friends list..no more guessing whether or not I am there. Just be aware of my status message; Ill let you know if Im available or cam and where you can see me. If youre not on my friends list, just shoot me a message. I automatically add anyone who has viewed one of my cam shows/tributed/gifted to me. Take that as my not so subtle hint.

I found something that I thought was very interesting and decided to share it with you. Whether or not you are into astrology, it should interest you to learn more about your favorite Aquarian. This summary is incredibly spot on, so read, enjoy and learn a lil something about the woman you adore and find irresistible one moment, then makes you want to scream in utter frustration the next…all the while knowing youll most certainly be back for more!

—–According to Greek legend and myth Uranus (the ruling planet of Aquarius) was god of the sky who embodied the impersonal force of nature. Very Uranian ruled Aquarians live their lives with their head in the clouds. He was married to Gaia the earth goddess, who grounded him in reality. Gaia hated the way Uranus treated their children and convinced one of their sons (Chronus/Saturn) to castrate him! This castration separated him from the influence of the earth and the myth then continues that he was placed in the sky(air) forever, symbolising the fixed nature of Aquarius. Through the death of Uranus Venus was created, for when the genitals were cast into the ocean, the goddess of love, art and beauty rose from the sea.

The picture of Aquarius as the Water Bearer often makes people believe that Aquarius is a water sign. But nothing could be further than the truth. The symbolism is only the pouring of change and mental ideas onto the earth from the urn in order to wash away the old, fertilize and renew the earth once more so that new life (ideas) can grow and form. Uranus the planet of evolution drives the Aquarian.

As a fixed air sign Aquarius can be incredibly unbending, sticking to their guns and to the need for freedom, which usually sits on the top of their list of what makes them happy. In fact many Aquarians make the need for freedom and space a personal tenet they live by through life. When an Aquarian tells you they’ll see you around, that’s exactly what they mean. Not for them to be tied down to appointments and schedules that bind.

Aquarians are sometimes the ’stop-go’ people; they work frenetically for long periods, and then go almost into seclusion or hibernation while they replenish themselves.There is need for the Aquarian to stop themselves getting so enmeshed with their own inner workings that they forget they have a body and a life to lead! It is very important for an Aquarian to make sure that they live a balanced lifestyle between work and rest, because very often they almost disown their bodies and forget that they exist.

They can be an enigma to family, friends, co-workers and lovers alike. Their behaviour is too erratic for most people to handle, so while the Aquarian wants to have many close connections, their behaviour can all too often drive others away. Then they wonder why! Bit of a Catch 22 sometimes. Aquarians make many friends, but few have what one would call really great close confidantes. They usually like those people who are intellectually their equal, radical or offbeat. In youth, Aquarians are often the ones who associate with those who walk on the wild side. Aquarians do not usually pass judgement on their friends, and may have many friends or acquaintances from different racial, cultural or ethical backgrounds. This is not of importance to an Aquarian so much as what the friend can offer in the way of mental stimulation.

In business and marriage the Aquarian will probably need unlimited freedom. They are not usually the best sign to work under the guidance of others though they enjoy having a mentor who they can learn from on an intellectual level. In marriage, the Aquarian secretly desires someone to look after them, and yet want someone who can look after him or herself too and not lean on them too much.

They are usually concerned with their own needs and do not usually find it easy to listen to a partners problems, especially if they are emotional ones. They like to dominate an affair, but can also be quite devoted if they feel they have found the right person. However, their attention span can be quite short. Anyone who demands too much, or limits the freedom usually gets a quick shove out the door.

There seems to be two types of Aquarians around the home, one is usually elegant and suave, the other type is just messy and does not see the mess they cause as they flit from one thing to another, leaving chaos in their wake. The mix of behaviours ranges from living in an elegant and luxuriously filled home, enjoying gourmet style meals to eating beans on toast.

But to many Aquarians life is a great adventure, they never seem to want to get past the youthful vision of life, they go after spontaneity, the curious and like to often live life moment to moment or ‘on the edge’. They can border on psychotic genius and unbelievable chaos out of which comes great change and inventions.

The Aquarian ego can be precarious; they are certainly non-conformists and can be eccentric and yet highly intellectual. Yet inside they can be extremely unsure of themselves and unwilling to share their thoughts or feelings. They are a fixed sign too, so once they have made their minds up about anything, it is very difficult for them to change or for others to change them. Unless Aquarius has a purpose little is likely to be achieved, however once they see a purpose or a goal they can make dreams come true.

Negatives:
Unwilling to share, tactless, arrogant, perverse or eccentric behaviour, aloof, cold, talkative, imposing will on others, no sympathy, outspoken, easily distracted, self-righteous, fanatical, zealot, voyeurism, lack of confidence, crude, pre-occupied with Self, impractical, fixed in their opinions, unbending, out of step with reality, tells others what to do, ignores emotions of others, intolerant, inflexible, uncommitted, bizarre, lawless and remote.

Positives:
Tolerant, unbiased, thoughtful, strong belief in humanity, loyal in friendship, inventive, independent, creative, objective, a free thinker, great visions of the future, technology interests that benefit mankind, humane, patient, serene, tranquil, tolerant, analytical, truth-seeking, honest, innovative, communicative, open-minded, intuitive, resolute, concerned, thoughtful and caring.