So, this morning I got this response to a gripe blog I wrote way back in April 2008, Stupid Questions And The Fools Who Ask Them, about the silly bois who email me with stupid questions, like “are you available?” when my Niteflirt status says “Call Now” indicating I am indeed available.
There are times when a girls Call Button says she’s available and when you call she isn’t. it’s not a stupid question. why should callers waste there time calling when someone’s call button suggets they’re available when they really aren’t. girls need to remember to change their status when they aren’t accepting calls and you wouldn’t get asked these “stupid questions”
I wholeheartedly agree with you…it just doesnt make sense to actually believe someone is available just because their status button says so, and waste your time hitting “Call Now” to connect with them instantly.
You should write to Niteflirt and recommend they change their status message from “Call Now!” to “Im Available Now, But Email Me First To See If Im Available. When I Eventually Check My Email, Which May Be a Minute From Now, Or An Hour From Now, Or Tomorrow, I Will Email You Back. If Im Still Available By Then, You Can Hit This Button To Call And See Me Live!”
Im sure they will take this very valid concern of yours into consideration. Gosh, I cant wait to see what the new call buttons will look like!!!
Thanks for your comment, and have a wonderful weekend!!!
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1Tiffany on Aug 10, 2008 at 3:42 pm:
OMG I absolutely hate it when guys email asking that.. duh.. read my call now button… whats it say??? Oh, it says call now?? Then what should you do? Ding ding ding, give the man a prize!!!
And the prize, ironically enough, is a cam show. Imagine that! LoL ~ Nicole
2Lady Johanna on Aug 18, 2008 at 3:39 am:
I hate when guys use this type of excuse with me. If *I* say I’m available, you don’t have to check. Cause someone else is unreliable doesn’t mean I am. Call now *means* call now!
Just like No means No and Yes means Yes! I’m not coy nor shy, I’d a domme, I say *exactly* what I mean. If I want you on your knees, I’ll *tell* you, no worries!
You don’t get a pass cause some other chick played games with you. After all, I’ve had guys be complete creeps with me, and i don’t assume you’re an asshole just cause they were.
Seriously! I totally feel you on this. These guys should be ever so thankful we dont treat em all like they are some of the many low lives that we come across on a daily basis. But you know, anyone who is so lame, disrespectful and ignorant is probably broke and irritating. Soo..Ill just count my blessings for it that the comment left for me was my one and hopefully only contact with that bloke! ~ Nicole